Yes, a lifetime of love and connection is possible.

Trauma-informed Couples Therapy in Nashville, TN

You keep telling yourselves, “We’re fine—it’s just a rough patch.”

You feel like the same argument keeps showing up, wearing different clothes...

We live in a world that teaches us to fake our okayness—to smile through the tension, lock away our disappointments, and keep up appearances even when you and your partner are slowly coming to feel like two ships passing in the night.

But denial is the opposite of connection. And you each deserve more than survival-mode love. The truth is, you don’t have to choose between checking out or calling it quits.

A richer, more empowered way is available to you. One that’s so worth pursuing.

For couples who’ve been through hell and back—and still want to fight for each other

Your rise together begins in the ruins you each survived.

When storms blow through your precious relationship—when trust breaks, when resentment builds, when old wounds shout louder than present love—it sucks. But on the other side of that reckoning? Something powerful can unfold.

Those threats you swore you’d never make again?
The distance that crept in like a fog and never lifted?
The baggage you each brought in—family traumas, the ghosts of past betrayals, the protective armors you created to survive?

The truth is, there’s a better way: What left your love in ruins might be the exact materials that allow you to build something more courageous, conscious, and powerful than what existed before.

Together, you can learn to collaborate with your differences, rekindle your connection, and crystallize your commitment—turning neglect into passion, avoidance into adventure, resentment into repair, stagnancy into growth, and assumptions into shared dreams.

You don't have to claw your way through the patterns alone anymore. You can find your way back—and forward—with fun tools, joyful rituals, empowering insights, and a bond that makes room for all of who you are.

It’d be my pleasure to help guide you there.

In your sessions, you’ll gain:

...tools to enrich your friendship through adventure, laughter, playfulness, meaning-making, and the exploration of dreams


...research-backed ways to deepen your emotional, spiritual, and sexual intimacy


…rituals of connection to fold into your daily life–ones that serve to keep the commitment and passion alive for years to come


...wisdom about the pain cycles that’ve spiraled your relationship into despair, and the peace cycles that can expand it into safety

No more giving up or turning away. From now on, your best chapter together.

Yes, it’s possible to meet each other, eye to eye, with openness and warmth again.

I realize you’re here because your precious relationship is suffering. You feel disappointed or hurt—in some cases, maybe hopeless. I also know that you haven’t given up–that this love story remains something you long to give fresh air.

If this resonates, know this: No matter how much you may fear that the connection, dreams, and passions you once shared are beyond resuscitation, it’s possible to transform any level of ruin into repair and reinvention.

In our sessions, we’ll explore old wounds, coping strategies, and patterns of reactivity that dominate your relationship. Together, you’ll gather tools for emotional self-regulation, declare a new truth over your love story, and learn how to transform pain loops into peace loops.

You’ll also be given fresh ways of navigating conflicts and exploring the underlying dreams and values that drive the stubborn problems you fear can never go away.

Yes, a lifetime of love is possible. And it’s possible for you.

My energizing approach to couples therapy

If you’re ready to breathe new life into your relationship…

I am trained in current, evidence-based couples therapy modalities designed to build connection and intimacy, mend or support trust, deepen affection, and inspire lasting friendship and love.

  • Gottman Method: Your precious relationships never fall apart in one dramatic moment; they erode slowly over time. The dismissive glance. The sharp tone. The silence that lingered too long. When hurt goes unwitnessed, couples get trapped in predictable loops that feel impossible to escape. With this approach, we interrupt those cycles and rebuild the friendship, intimacy, and trust that make love durable and enjoyable. This is lively, research-backed work that can turn “we keep having the same fight” into “we figured out how to find each other again.”

  • Restoration Therapy (RT): This attachment-based approach pulls in neuroscience to repair the relational injuries that shaped your self-concept and sense of safety early in life. If connection felt conditional, harsh, or unpredictable, you may have folded in beliefs that now unconsciously send you and your loved one into painful, maddening loops. In session, we strengthen both partners’ abilities to self-regulate so each can lovingly connect and relate from empowered choice and wholeness, not reflex and wounds.

I’d be honored to support your love story.

  • Prepare/Enrich Premarital Certification: This powerful, data-driven assessment tool allows me to design a map that’ll guide your relationship out of the patterns that confuse and frustrate you, and into a more empowered way forward.

  • Experiential Therapy Techniques: I use a collection of energizing tools to inspire connection, magnify impact, and spark change. From sand tray and games to guided imagery, I create adventurous and engaging experiences that allow each partner to vividly “see” the other’s inner world and “try on” new emotions, perspectives, and stories that might better serve the bond they wish to build.

Even if you fear that the dreams you once shared are beyond resuscitation...

It’s possible to transform any level of devastation into joyful reinvention.

What we’ll work on:

Imagine a bond where…

01 You steady yourselves in calm, compassion, and true connection—even when bad days find you

Because you’ve learned to be fully present with, and relate to, each other’s pain without being swallowed whole by it.

02 You’re no longer operating from trauma loops, but as two empowered, secure, and whole people in love

Because you’ve learned to tolerate your differences without panic and express your needs without the fear of an attack—moving through time together from a grounded place of wholeness and truth, not hunger and wounds.

03 You find adventure, laughter, and pleasure woven into your daily routines

Because you’ve learned how to fill each other’s cups with inspiring, heart-centered conversations, enjoy shared values that pull you nearer than ever, and discover new and emerging terrains of friendship, passion, and fun.

Reignite the fires of love & closeness you once shared.

Yes, a stronger, more satisfying bond is possible. I can help.

I’m here to help with…

  • Emotional reactivity

  • Healthier communication

  • Connection & Intimacy

  • Rebuilding friendship

  • Childhood attachment wounds

  • Relational trauma

  • Parenting burnout

  • Major life transitions

Questions?

FAQs: Couples Therapy

  • While I continuously devote myself to a diverse range of current, evidence-based trainings beyond graduate school, including specialized education from the Gottman Institute and Restoration Therapy’s founder, Terry Hargrave, my passion for understanding and fostering healthy relationships is deep and personal.

    Before becoming a therapist, after being shaped by life-long grief and family-wide loss, and undergoing trauma therapy, I spent more than a decade as a journalist, working closely with some of the world’s leading mental health and spiritual thought leaders to illuminate the nuances of healthy communication and satisfying love.

    These experiences sparked a passion in me for understanding the power of attachment and the brilliance of the brain and nervous system—pointing me toward revelations about how we reenact early childhood pain and unprocessed trauma with our partners.

    With science, humility, and heart, I approach my work as a couples therapist with devout seriousness and joy, and will never stop being a student of its complexities and potentialities.

    As someone who’s been married for 13 years, I believe in the power of family and am an advocate for love. And I wholeheartedly believe in your capacity to heal yourselves and your relationship, and wiggle free from the grips of betrayal, disappointment, distance, or resentment—no matter what you’ve traveled through.

  • By the time you and your partner bow out of couples therapy, you should feel an enriching sense of friendship, intimacy, safety, and shared values. You will each have learned how to move through time together from a place of wholeness instead of hunger.

    For many couples, their relationship becomes a beautiful source of adventure, passion, dreaming, and support. And, most importantly, a greater willingness to continuously explore each other’s inner world.

  • This is a super common scenario; if it applies to you, take heart!

    I suggest starting with individual therapy first, where we can begin exploring your personal challenges with burnout, trauma, or whatever needs attention and care.

    So often, once your partner witnesses the changes playing out in your communication, self-confidence, and well-being, they become intrigued, and the willingness to try couples therapy opens up for them.

  • This is about helping couples navigate a myriad of trauma-induced storms and challenges, including anxious or avoidant attachment from childhood trauma, shared trauma of experiences like miscarriage, tragedies, or loss of a loved one, and betrayals like affairs or financial infidelity.

    You can learn more about my trauma approach and trainings here.

    And know this: No matter what you’ve moved through, healing is possible.

  • Absolutely, I do! While most of my couples prefer in-person sessions, that isn’t possible for everyone. Luckily, some studies show that online couple’s therapy is just as effective as in-person appointments. I’ve witnessed incredible results with it.

    For those with hectic schedules, work and childcare demands, limited local options, or disabilities that make travel challenging, online therapy can feel like a godsend.

    You don’t have to keep looping helplessly in a relationship Groundhog Day anymore. With online couple’s therapy, healing and support are more accessible than ever. Change is possible, and it’s possible for you.

    I’d be honored to play a role in your love story.

  • $175 for a 55-minute session.

    *Intensives are also available upon request.

  • Welcome, I’m glad you’re here! For a free, no-commitment 15-minute discovery call, or to move forward with securing your first session, click here to book.

    I look forward to learning about how I can be of help to both of you!

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